Don’t take anything PERSONALLY

2 Jun

Hey everyone,

how are you doing today? Well, I have to say that at the moment I feel pretty well. I will let you know why. Actually, I have to work now… but I have the desire to spread my feelings with you.

Early in the morning my wife and I have been in the gym and each time we go there I listen to some audio. Today I started to listen to “The Four Agreements” The first 30 minutes have been astonishing!

Well, some of the wisdom in the first 30 minutes I heard before but the thing is that now I am ready to grab it. I believe there are specific times in life when someone is ready to grow and the last weeks showed me that finally the time has come for me to grow more and more. For people who are not seeking and interested in how to grow one’s life will feel lost while reading the following lines or listening to such a tape. I guess I now became sensitive to specific words, sentences and meanings because of the fact that I need to. I am picturing a door that I finally found and which I am unlocking slowly but surely.

The message that I want to spread around today – that I grabbed – is to take nothing personally at all. The title of the post says “Don’t take anything personally” now there are many ways how to read it…one way is to read it fast > not feeling anything while reading it, another way is to think …ohh I heard that before…      the way I read it –  is > making it to the main believe in my mind. Giving massive value to this TITLE – to live life like that.

I truly believe that this is the way to become immune against anything that bothers you in your life. When people look strange at you, when people dislike you, when people have a strange attitude towards you, when people talk bad behind your back, when people lie to you, etc.  if you start to not taking anything personally anymore in your life that comes from other people – I am sure that your life will look completely different right away. Its like you are living in a bubble and the skin of the bubble is becoming thicker and thicker as soon as you live after this principle. Words that hurt you, looks that irritate you, gossips that make you feel bad will just bounce back. If you start to believe that everything that a person tells you that is not pleasant at all he or she is actually saying to him or herself then it all makes much more sense. A person is hurting another person due to the fact that he is not happy with himself. Due to the fact that this person has so many issues in his life that he can not handle anymore. This person wants to get rid of the problems that are bothering him and that is why he lets it out at another person to feel released.

So if you start realizing that each person has his own problems he has to deal with and that telling negative words to another person is just a reflection of himself then you will not be vulnerable anymore. The opposite in your life will be established soon. You will become a person that bounces back anything that does not belong into your bubble and that you do not agree with. For real > try to imagine yourself being in a big bubble – and now imagine that everything that you do not like that is influencing your life is just bouncing back to where it came from. Your bubble is protecting you and day by day the skin of your bubble is becoming bigger and bigger and then you are so strong in your life that nothing can bring you down anymore!

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I know that this post has nothing to do with “The Growing Stone of Hope”  but on the other hand I believe it does! It somehow belongs to the whole project…..The Growing Stone of Hope is growing each single day – do the same and never stop growing within yourself!

P.S.: actually I need to add many more sentences and examples to make my point a bit clearer but now I have to go on….

Pls take care – thanks so much for your comments we really read each one of them and we appreciate them a LOT!

best regards

The Growing Stone of Hope Couple

Power in You!

9 May

Hey,

how is life treating you? (wrong questions) How are you treating your life? (that is the right question)

Well, i just have been in our kitchen and I thought about you and TGSH. In this post I am not going to update anything on TGSH but I want to tell you a short story about a beautiful experience I had last friday. I am posting it now because it took me a while until it made “click” in my head. Today I really understand what happened last friday and this experience showed me what we as a human being can achieve with just our thoughts. soooo

last friday my wife and I have been at a family constellation. There was a medium and 11 more people. (my wife and I love the spiritual world a lot) It was the first time for us that we attended at such a meeting but it is not going to be the last one for sure. We went there because of me. For more than a decade I need to fix something in my life and step by step I am guided to the right places to resolve this problem. I wanted to go first but the initiator of the meeting suggested I should have a look first and then go for it. >I did.< I went second.

Well, for those of you who did not hear anything about family constellation I will explain it very briefly. – I believe there are different ways how to do that but at this meeting is was as follows. The person who wants to get to know something about his life, a pain that occurs in the body, depression, sadness, weakness, relationship issues, etc. you name it… If you have a problem in your family or that has to do with you and you really want to solve it or get to know more about it you can attend a family constellation, where a medium is obtaining your energies and making contact to the spiritual world. The spiritual world will give answers to your questions and support you to solve your problems. The medium is receiving these answers and translating them to you. (very briefly)

I sat next to the medium (a very kind woman) and she told me “do not tell me everything I just want to know what your subject is about – ok – so I actually just told here a handful of names – nothing else. Then I had to choose a person that would be me and a person that would play someone the problem I had was about. I had to give my energy into both persons. I put my hands on their shoulders and transmitted my energy to them. Both of them were sitting in front of each other and all other people including me were sitting around them.

Then the medium asked these two chosen people what they felt. > it was amazing < I have never met these people before and they told us exactly what I felt. It continued like that and the medium invited more people to present self-consciousness and a problem box. (I do not want to go into detail / be too personal so I will tell you what I learned) By and large, it was just unbelievable. Everything these two people said was true and absolutely correct. – at the end I hugged everyone and I felt much lighter and I was pretty happy (although these two people were crying) It was a beautiful feeling and I felt relieved. Like someone relieved a gigantic burden of me. I still feel that way and I hope that it will stay like that for the rest of my life.

My message for today: The message that I want to deliver is that we human beings are full of energy and thoughts that have enormous power. The problem is that we do not know how to use them the right way and what we can reach with them. From today on I will use my inner energy to become more successful in life and solve problems that are surrounding me. I will definitely use my positive energy to make big steps forward. I now really realized how powerful the energy > that is in my body, around my body and that I am carrying with me wherever I go < IS – The energy that is in us – is a big influencer of our life. We must start using this energy to live the life we are dreaming of.

A few years ago I watched the movie “The Secret” ..well, I thought I got the message and I started to send my thoughts to the universe but to be honest I guess I did not do it the right way. I did not really understand the strength behind this method. Today I got it and I hope that I could bring you the usefulness of the power of our thoughts and energy that we all have in us    a bit closer.

Please take care and use your energy wisely !

with best regards

The Growing Stone of Hope Couple

 

 

 

OVER 1000 Stones of HOPE! 4 DIGITS…

26 Apr

Hey everyone,

we hope you are doing fine. We made a big step! We have more than 1000 Stones of Hope. To be exact – we have 1018 Stones.  It is just wonderful to say this number aloud. 1018 – YEAH!

As you can see on the picture we just added blue stones. Due to the last questions we asked – What color should we add? –  we received three answers – 2x blue and 1x yellow. So we took blue! Thanks again for replying! :-)

Today we were looking at the TGSH and my wife and I thought – wow – one day this stone is going to have a value of a few million $ and then we all are going to support people in need enormously. Today I still can hold TGSH in one hand but I strongly believe that one day I will not be able to that anymore. I am convinced of the fact that one day we need a tower crane to move TGSH to the final destination. Yeah these are some of my thoughts I have when I look at it – (smile).

To be honest – I am unbelievable happy that we started this project and that we received such an unbelievable support of you guys. Without you …. I can’t even think about it what would be….

I have the feeling that as soon as this project obtained some popularity – it will definitely inspire people to do something similar. People will see that it works and they will start to believe that everything is quite possible if you make up your mind and just start doing it. “Just do it!”

I am imagining that The Growing Stone of Hope is not just going to support people who are really in need but ordinary people that have problems in their life as well. In my eyes this stone will give HOPE to everyone!

BIG HUG

The Growing Stone of Hope Couple

 

 

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Special Post – Special People – Miami – Gracias

9 Apr

Hey everyone!

We have AWESOME news! We have been on a short vacation. We have been in Miami! It was really great and relaxing. We enjoyed it a lot! Not just the sun was shining like crazy and made the days wonderful but special people that we met on the street made some of the days outstanding.

While we were walking around and doing some window shopping we got to know special people that we informed about The Growing Stone of Hope and of you guys (our supporters / community). You should have seen their faces when we explained the concept. They were fascinated! (Sometimes I wish I would have a camera in my eye)

So when I think back at this week I will have these people in mind. Here are some pictures that we took while we were introducing TGSH. We took these pictures in and around Coconut Groove! A beautiful place!

The Growing Stone of Hope has been oversees for the very first time – Yeah!

>>> Here again we want to give special thanks to the super friendly crowd we met in Miami and that started to support the TGSH. <<<

If you have any picture that supports TGSH please do not hesitate to send it to us. We will publish it as well!

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994 YOUTUBE FOLLOWERS NEEDED! URGENT!

29 Mar

Hey everyone!

How are you today? I couldn’t sleep yesterday..I have been awake until 4 o’clock in the morning. Actually, I have been thinking the whole time how to make “THE GROWING STONE OF HOPE” really popular and strong enough to make a huge impact. Well, I have a couple of ideas but the first one I would like to mention is the following. After some hesitation we decided to ask you for a favor that really could change the whole process of the TGSH Project. – FOR REAL -

The FAVOUR / Idea / Huge Impact:

YOUTUBE is offering a free of charge service called FAN FINDER.  (Fan Finder – Free Promotion for Your own Channel) A few months ago we applied for this service; unfortunately, YOUTUBE briefed us that we need 1000 Channel FOLLOWERS to enjoy the free advertisement for our project. So the good news is that we already have 6 followers. Yeah!! hmmm the bad news is that we need 994 followers to make a gigantic step forward. On WordPress we have now more than 800 Followers so we have been asking ourselves if you can support us once again and follow our youtube channel so that TGSH will be very famous at the end of this year.

Do you remember the “Trailer” we established…?… We established this trailer to participate on FAN FINDER on YOUTUBE. So if we make it to 1000 followers – then this trailer will be shown all over on youtube and lead to thousands of clicks on the original video!

So…what do you say? We know you already supported us a lot by clicking on the video, posting comments, reblogging and liking our posts..(thank you so much for that)…but this could become really BIG….so please pull yourself one more time together for this project and follow us on YOUTUBE. You will see  – it will make a difference at the end!

THANK YOU – Please take care – The Growing Stone of Hope Couple

P.S: Click on the picture -> a new window will open where you can follow our channel.

P.P.S.: To ask does not cost anything but not to ask could become really expensive…

YOUTUBE FAN FINDER

813 Stones of 100% HOPE!

13 Feb

“The experience Life can be beautiful and unforgettable if you know when to accelerate and to brake.”  by R.S.K. 02.12.2014

Hello friends, 

we hope you are enjoying the day and having a good time. We added more than 201 stones of 100% real HOPE!

Due to the fact that we are just able to add more stones because of you! – we want to involve you much more in this project than you can imagine :-)

Let’s start right away: Please let us know your favorite color. The color that will be posted the most will be the color of the next added stones of hope.

We are eager to see your comments / color suggestions.

Thank you

Best regards

The Growing Stone of Hope Couple – Big Hug

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612 Stones of REAL HOPE! Can you feel it?!

23 Jan

Hey “TGSHSUPPORTERS“,

I hope you are doing just fine. Let me tell you this right away. Its great to have you all on board :-)

At the moment we are rolling with more speed to the right direction. We added 131 Hope Stones in 11 days! I just can repeat myself > It’s exciting and it’s so much fun! My wife and I “absolutely” enjoy it ! We hope you too?! (let us know)

In addition we want to give a special imaginary big hug to all of you who clicked on the video, posted TGSH on their own blog, follow us, liked our posts, shared the links on FB, Twitter, Pinterest,etc. commented on our posts and talked already about it. Each comment, each like, each click is so much worth to us – you can not imagine it. Each single interaction has a mavellous meaning to us. Its like we are having a couch / trainer behind us who is saying “Don’t you give up on me! Stay focused! Do it now or never I know it will work out!” For real > you are giving us so much Power + Motivation + Energy + Focus + Excitement – that I believe I will not sleep tonight….I just want to keep on going :-)

Now something to think about    “The Click

In our new trailer http://youtu.be/nOzTnayEgy0 we are emphazising that you can change the world with ONE CLICK – (hopefully it will become true) – furthermore we want to accentuate that this one click that you made and hopefully many people will make – is not just a click with a mouse but it also makes a click in our “Heart” and in our “Mind“. With the click on this video we realize what we can reach when we all work together for a very good cause. My feeling is (each time I click on the video) happiness and I am imagining thousands of little sweet smiling children dancing and singing all around their new school. > and that just because of one click – so in our eyes a click is not just a click anymore – much more than that – a click has the ability to change the whole world, change people’s focus, feelings and mindset.

>>>Your Click is Pretty Powerful!<<<

we wish you all the best

The Growing Stone of Hope Couple

TGSH

2014 what a great START! 481 Hope Stones!

12 Jan

Hey everyone!

“The Growing Stone of Hope” had a great start into the new year 2014. We added 92 Stones of Hope in less than 12 days. That’s pretty nice and we reached such a progress just because of YOU!

Due to such a success we created a special artwork. Hopefully one day this “Flag” will wave above the building that we will establish as soon as we received the huge donation.

If you want to send us your artwork for “The Growing Stone of Hope” as a picture then don’t hesitate. We will be more than happy to post them on our site, twitter, fb, pinterest, etc.! Actually that would be really cool.

If you have any idea to increase the attention for “The Growing Stone of Hope” – just let us know – we are eager to try new media channels / new strategies.

Please take care and follow your special dream!

with best regards

The Growing Stone of Hope Couple

TGSH TGSH 2

2013 is coming to an end…

31 Dec

The journey and growth of “The Growing Stone of Hope” started in the year 2013.

You all showed us with your comments and clicks that you like the idea to support people in need in India by just clicking on the original video on Youtube. Therefore we are thinking big. In 2014  “The Growing Stone of Hope” should obtain the attention  it deserves. 2014 should be the time to convince the media to mention us on their shows.

Today is the 12.31.2013 and the “TGSH” has 389 Hope Stones & a new wood escutcheon.

I believe that 2014 will be a hit for “TGSH” ! My wife and I are very excited about it and we hope you are too.

We really wish you all the best for the next year and that all your wishes will come true.

We thank you so much for your support! Never forget that you made it all happen! You are the one that keep the world moving.

best regards & take care

The Growing Stone of Hope Couple

12.31.2013

 

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